The Keyholder's Locktober Companion
PDF · 18 pp + audio
Your October, one week at a time. Holding the key, most days in about five minutes.
This is your plan if you're holding the key. Your partner follows their own: The 31-Day Locktober Guide, Locktober Daily or the Locktober Task Deck. If you'd rather share one guide as a couple, Locktober for Couples covers both roles, and this Companion becomes optional extra support.
What's inside
- 18-page PDF
- Check-in scripts and a task menu
- Audio for the keyholder (6 min)
Look inside
Everything else about Locktober talks to the person wearing. This talks to you. You don't have to be dominant, and you don't have to enjoy every part of it. On most days, holding the key takes about five minutes. The Keyholder's Locktober Companion gives you a calm, week-by-week plan so you always know what's asked of you, and what isn't.
Who it's for: keyholders running October with a partner, especially if you're new, unsure, or simply busy. It maps day for day onto The 31-Day Locktober Guide, so you and your partner are always on the same page, whether they're using that guide, Locktober Daily or the Locktober Task Deck.
What it helps with: agreeing the rules before 1st October, choosing one or two tasks a week from a menu instead of inventing them, answering check-ins with lines you can reuse, handling pestering with one calm reply, telling "hard" apart from "unsafe", and closing the month with an unhurried release day and aftercare.
Built for consenting adults. Pain, numbness, swelling or colour change means unlock immediately: release for health reasons is always allowed, on any day, and it is never a failure.
18+ only.
