Chastity Together: A Couples' Starter Guide
PDF · 28 pp + audio
A calm starting point for exploring chastity as a couple, with a section for each of you.
This is the first step for a couple trying chastity together, so read it before anything else. Once you've settled in, add the Couples' Communication Cards for your check-ins, and come back to The Reconnection Guide when things have gone quiet.
What's inside
- 28-page PDF
- 4 printable templates
- 2 audio sessions, one for each of you
Look inside
It's completely normal for one of you to be more curious than the other. Chastity Together is written for exactly that. You read the shared core together, then each partner gets their own section, addressed to you directly, with no need to read the other's unless you want to.
Who it's for: couples at the very beginning, including the partner who isn't sure yet and has simply agreed to try. You don't have to be dominant to be a keyholder, and this guide works whichever of you picked it up first.
What it helps with: having the first conversation, deciding who holds the key, building rules together, and keeping things sustainable. The keyholder gets a low-effort approach and permission to set boundaries. The wearer gets practical ways to manage frustration and avoid the pestering trap. Both of you get a page on what to do when one partner wants more than the other.
Built for consenting adults. Agree a safeword or pause phrase before you begin, and release for any health concern is always allowed, whatever the plan says.
18+ only.
